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<h2 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.75em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.225;cursor: text;border-bottom-width: 1px;border-bottom-style: solid;border-bottom-color: rgb(238, 238, 238);width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">刊首语</span></h2><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">果然是年纪越大,就越容易怀旧啊,电子宠物啊、GBA啊,还有动森里的饮水鸟玩具!一个个都在勾起童年回忆,可惜的是,很多伴随着美好回忆的物件都没能好好地保存下来…… 但似乎也正是因为没有保留下来,才越发想念?也许吧。魔都这波疫情来势汹汹,医院关闭、很多活动也陆续开始取消了,冬天来了呢,大家都要注意防护哦~</span></p><h2 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.75em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.225;cursor: text;border-bottom-width: 1px;border-bottom-style: solid;border-bottom-color: rgb(238, 238, 238);width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">封面图</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[1]</span></sup></h2><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">美洲雕鸮(Bubo virginianus, great horned owl),初见时,眼睛还睁得大大的,待半小时后折回去,已经睡着了。</span></p></blockquote><p style="text-align: center;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-galleryid="" data-ratio="0.56171875" data-s="300,640" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/KFEEzuYoIv3xGicRQFXNbibxjctD5ib7d6oAKElibQVlfrtelGACt5bjpkPgXDXObc7GBr49vE0TNgs7WkRaEO3Keg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1280" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/11/27/20211127556E32.jpeg" style=""/></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">图片来自引文,版权归原作者所有</span></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'> </p><h2 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.75em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.225;cursor: text;border-bottom-width: 1px;border-bottom-style: solid;border-bottom-color: rgb(238, 238, 238);width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">本周话题</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[2]</span></sup></h2><h4 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.25em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.4;cursor: text;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">如果没有这只25岁的像素鸡 还会有后来的高达吗?</span></h4><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">满满的回忆啊,可惜搬家之后就再也没找到当时的那只山寨“拓麻歌子”了。那时候叫「电子宠物」,虽然在现在看起来,玩法过于简单,重复的步骤,互动也比较初级,但当时,几个小按钮按来按去可起劲了,觉得自己的像素小鸡是最可爱的!游戏的世界已过万代,但有一件事没有变 —— 陪伴。通过「陪伴」建立起了与玩家的纽带。</span></p><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">因为它的外形设计很像鸡蛋和电子手表的结合体,所以 </span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">:蛋( Tamago )+ 手表( Watch )= 拓麻歌子( Tamagotchi )</span></strong></p></blockquote><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">拓麻歌子的玩法其实很简单。就像我们饲养现实中的宠物一样,喂食、洗澡、玩耍、清理粪便,看着它一天天长大,而且它也会“ 死 ”。它会在饿了或者需要清理粪便的时候,发出声音提示你该下场干活了,是不是和你家猫主子很像?</span> <span style="box-sizing: border-box;">在网络还没有如今发达的时代,这样的电子宠物是孩子们消遣娱乐、满足好奇,甚至第一次参与到一个“ 生命 ”从出生到成长,还有死亡的过程中重要的途径。</span></p></blockquote><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-ratio="0.5" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/KFEEzuYoIv3xGicRQFXNbibxjctD5ib7d6oWOibrIXq24iclicfyicy0TIXVv5Jn3WU93e4DL3oHRibLicEibhuV9YTgOT9g/640?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="1080" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/11/27/20211127YwY95F.png" style="box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;image-orientation: from-image;display: block;margin: auto;"/></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">图片来自引文,版权归原作者所有</span></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'> </p><h2 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.75em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.225;cursor: text;border-bottom-width: 1px;border-bottom-style: solid;border-bottom-color: rgb(238, 238, 238);width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">好好生活</span></h2><h4 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.25em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.4;cursor: text;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">【双语】韩国首尔推出“10分钟城市”社区项目</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[3]</span></sup></h4><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">“15分钟城市”,即居民都能从家步行或骑车15分钟内到达工作和休闲场所,这一概念在新冠疫情期间越来越受城市规划者的欢迎。</span> <span style="box-sizing: border-box;">该规划被称为“H1项目”,旨在将一个老工业区改造成一个互相连通的“智慧”城市。通过将8栋住宅楼和联合办公区、教学空间结合在一起,这块方圆125英亩(50.6万平方米)的地上将建起娱乐场所、健身中心、游泳池甚至城市水培农场。</span></p></blockquote><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-ratio="0.75" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/KFEEzuYoIv3xGicRQFXNbibxjctD5ib7d6oTTo7vibUibwhS6KUXeX8NYIL3gVeBDe8zF4XCib0cIkpMib61bVu6cVX9g/640?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="700" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/11/27/20211127r0t645.png" style="box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;image-orientation: from-image;display: block;margin: auto;"/></p><p 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style="box-sizing: border-box;">给广东人一份盆+水,能端上桌多少种火锅?</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[4]</span></sup></h4><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">新历十一月,广东的冬季终于风尘仆仆地赶来了,虽迟但到。猪朋狗友们开始各种借口约不出来,这时,你轻描淡写说一句:“走,打边炉。”友情的小船便再次扬帆起航。</span></p></blockquote><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-ratio="0.745945945945946" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/KFEEzuYoIv3xGicRQFXNbibxjctD5ib7d6oWamE6CThIFKcjkFFMIuySpNbISNcPzqYje9gPGP3piaAmZuvrUaxu9w/640?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="555" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/11/27/20211127233q61.png" style="box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;image-orientation: from-image;display: block;margin: auto;"/></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">图片来自引文,版权归原作者所有</span></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'> </p><h4 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.25em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.4;cursor: text;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">太好了!大规模研究指出低强度运动也有益健康,缓解焦虑</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[5]</span></sup></h4><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">如何摆脱焦虑?</span></strong><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">一项发表在《情感障碍期刊》(</span><em style="box-sizing: border-box;">Journal of Affective Disorders</em><span style="box-sizing: border-box;"> )的随机对照试验表明,</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">体育运动可以提供行之有效的帮助</span></strong><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">。</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">即便是长期焦虑的人,在经过为期12周的运动后,焦虑程度也大多有所降低</span></strong><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">。</span></p></blockquote><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-ratio="0.667060212514758" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/KFEEzuYoIv3xGicRQFXNbibxjctD5ib7d6osOhfqgWmflGpFWnSe5dFMGRzRIQ4kXgic4RMkeBsniacBiaia8aZ620dZQ/640?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="847" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/11/27/20211127u76120.png" style="box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;image-orientation: from-image;display: block;margin: auto;"/></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">图片来自引文,版权归原作者所有</span></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'> </p><h2 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.75em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.225;cursor: text;border-bottom-width: 1px;border-bottom-style: solid;border-bottom-color: rgb(238, 238, 238);width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">书报影音</span></h2><h4 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.25em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.4;cursor: text;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">清末各样人物图册</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[6]</span></sup></h4><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">有意思,虽然为了回应欧洲买家的期望,形象上做了调整,但没有照片的年代,着实珍贵。原文有下载链接。</span></p><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">此《各样人物》图册是清末广州画坊为欧洲人绘制。此内共两套,十册(三十二幅一册,共三百二十幅),十二册(二十四幅一册,共二百八十八幅),并配有汉字说明。内容涉及清末各行业、及历史神话人物,在欧洲,这些形象被视为了解中国社会的可靠来源。这两种水粉画约绘制于十八世纪晚期。</span></p></blockquote><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-ratio="0.49883177570093457" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/KFEEzuYoIv3xGicRQFXNbibxjctD5ib7d6oatUOP6b3KfygE3zqXFSRpYxVBCPjyb5ddDYraYmcGx5X4vXGGbZsTQ/640?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="1712" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/11/27/202111279998JL.png" style="box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;image-orientation: from-image;display: block;margin: auto;"/></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">图片来自引文,版权归原作者所有</span></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'> </p><h4 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.25em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.4;cursor: text;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">日本任天堂官方杂志2021年冬季数字版 足足百页内容丰富</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[7]</span></sup></h4><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">任天堂今日发布了2021年冬季杂志的数字版</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[8]</span></sup><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">,杂志足足100页。内容介绍了许多第一方的游戏,还有宝可梦特集。杂志为日语版,但是内容图片较多。</span></p></blockquote><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-ratio="0.7084168336673347" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/KFEEzuYoIv3xGicRQFXNbibxjctD5ib7d6oSzbIgibwnBcvPVv0vyaFSSn4Hicia1m7SzP2CqhCcVibzmI1FLk4CdicWNw/640?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="998" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/11/27/20211127s0130B.png" style="box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;image-orientation: from-image;display: block;margin: auto;"/></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">图片来自引文,版权归原作者所有</span></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'> </p><h4 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.25em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.4;cursor: text;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">带你看看别人的录书工作角</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[9]</span></sup></h4><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">来让我们看看这个录书工作角到底是如何配置的吧,如果有入行的兴趣建议收藏下避避雷。</span></p></blockquote><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-ratio="0.49859154929577465" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/KFEEzuYoIv3xGicRQFXNbibxjctD5ib7d6oz4yhbiawHajBCfplXvr9X4NA1eazFKqmcibxZmklibhQZjJLMsF2AjHMQ/640?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="1420" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/11/27/202111273sdG84.png" style="box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;image-orientation: from-image;display: block;margin: auto;"/></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'> </p><h2 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.75em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.225;cursor: text;border-bottom-width: 1px;border-bottom-style: solid;border-bottom-color: rgb(238, 238, 238);width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">科技人文</span></h2><h4 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.25em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.4;cursor: text;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">Reddit 工程师称新 MacBook Pro 极大提升了开发效率且能够很快回本</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[10]</span></sup></h4><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">首先,我预估一位普通的 Android 工程师,每天会耗费 45 分钟等待编译完成。</span> <span style="box-sizing: border-box;">其次,与 2019 款英特尔酷睿 i9 版 MacBook Pro 相比,2021 款 M1 Max MacBook 仅需一半时间,就能够高效完成我们所需的 Android 存储库构建。</span> <span style="box-sizing: border-box;">这意味着,如果舍得在前期砸钱购买顶配版 M1 Max MacBook Pro,Android 开发者每天都可在这方面节省差不多 22 分钟的时间。</span></p></blockquote><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">为便于大家理解,Jameson Williams 给出了一幅相当直观的“盈亏平衡点”图表。以假设的 9 人团队为例,公司可在差不多 3 个月后即收回设备购置成本。</span></p></blockquote><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-ratio="0.7914285714285715" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/KFEEzuYoIv3xGicRQFXNbibxjctD5ib7d6o15HEMeIm70j9PNAMVqgkvq3yJiaCXOJNwhfvMqyhiaKiaRafwAQqFQ94g/640?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="700" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/11/27/2021112703t956.png" style="box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;image-orientation: from-image;display: block;margin: auto;"/></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">图片来自引文,版权归原作者所有</span></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'> </p><h4 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.25em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.4;cursor: text;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">不需再给爱车贴膜 苹果申请新专利:将用于泰塔造车项目</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[11]</span></sup></h4><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">近日,美国专利商标局(U.S. Patent and Trademark Office)授予了苹果公司两项泰坦项目(造车)专利,分别是更高级的车窗以及全新的空气悬架。首先看下车窗系统。为了营造更加舒适和安全的驾乘环境,目前汽车普遍使用双层夹胶玻璃,而苹果获得的专利就是</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">在一对夹层玻璃之一的向内表面上形成红外光阻挡涂层</span></strong><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">。</span></p></blockquote><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-ratio="0.46125" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/KFEEzuYoIv3xGicRQFXNbibxjctD5ib7d6oClkTVk1tdtnJNAzUjDDuLFdK95SdLgmeib2icSbHL7OvhazB7zgCSVwg/640?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="800" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/11/27/20211127p6Xd44.png" style="box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;image-orientation: from-image;display: block;margin: auto;"/></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">图片来自引文,版权归原作者所有</span></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'> </p><h4 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.25em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.4;cursor: text;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">新型可穿戴设备可让佩戴者通过振动理解语言</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[12]</span></sup></h4><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">学生们在英语的39种不同声音的基础上开发了一种振动语言,每一种声音都被分配给一种独特的振动。然后,该系统使用这个数据库来驱动嵌入用户所穿的织物袖子中的马达以形成单词或句子。</span></p></blockquote><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-ratio="0.6657142857142857" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/KFEEzuYoIv3xGicRQFXNbibxjctD5ib7d6onlSeol95E9Wh5fzg8nJrVLbF4ic4vSlKJafNpMSibttg5Pw1xYNrqJtQ/640?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="700" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/11/27/20211127Wbo440.png" style="box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;image-orientation: from-image;display: block;margin: auto;"/></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">图片来自引文,版权归原作者所有</span></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'> </p><h4 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.25em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.4;cursor: text;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">英伟达最新 AI 技术可将文字转化为逼真的图像</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[13]</span></sup></h4><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">英伟达最近真的频繁刷屏啊(可能之前也是,只是我没注意到🤦♀️),他家的 MetaVerse 看上去靠谱多了。这个转图像的技术也是相当厉害了。</span></p><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">英伟达在2019年首次展示了其 GauGAN 技术,但直到最近我们才看到它被应用于面向大众的产品中。这款名为 Canvas 的软件使用起来非常有趣,允许用户用基本的草图创造出类似照片的惊人图像。</span></p></blockquote><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-cropselx1="0" data-cropselx2="578" data-cropsely1="0" data-cropsely2="327" data-ratio="0.5666666666666667" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/KFEEzuYoIv3xGicRQFXNbibxjctD5ib7d6olSiapIADIJlxWJr0ulH2kkDwSt8UfwWpgzTl0FBGXEWbVfUdoVHNIbw/640?wx_fmt=gif" data-type="gif" data-w="1080" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/11/27/20211127i39YtI.gif" style="box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;image-orientation: from-image;display: block;margin: auto;width: 578px;height: 328px;"/></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">图片来自引文,版权归原作者所有</span></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'> </p><h4 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.25em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.4;cursor: text;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">揭开入选 Big Idea Ventures 加速器的初创公司的面纱</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[14]</span></sup></h4><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">在本期 BIV 加速器中,17家专注于应对粮食和气候挑战的科技初创公司被选中,将分别在纽约、新加坡和巴黎参与加速器项目,并会获得预种子轮的投资。在选定的初创公司中,开发替代乳制品是主要的重点之一。替代乳制品市场是植物性食品领域中最发达的类别,预计到2028年,其价值将达到540亿美元。</span></p></blockquote><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><img data-ratio="0.7705627705627706" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/KFEEzuYoIv3xGicRQFXNbibxjctD5ib7d6opJC8ibCKn87uEgfkevEFUs2E8FXR0lYVTdhj9YdrY4Eicbl2AFDHRP4g/640?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="693" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/11/27/202111278202d0.png" style="box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;image-orientation: from-image;display: block;margin: auto;"/></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">图片来自引文,版权归原作者所有</span></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'> </p><h4 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.25em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.4;cursor: text;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">日本虎杖提取物可以降低加工肉制品的癌症风险</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[15]</span></sup></h4><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">在1874年时,日本虎杖甚至被荷兰农业园艺学会评为“年度观赏植物”;然而,日本虎杖在19世纪被作为观赏植物引入欧洲和北美后,却蔓延成灾。日本虎杖在欧洲肆意横行,破坏路面,破坏房屋,并且难以消除。令人想不到的是,这种已经臭名昭著的入侵植物物种竟然含有一种神奇化学物质,白藜芦醇,可以取代培根和香肠等加工肉制品中添加剂——亚硝酸钠。</span></p></blockquote><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><img data-ratio="0.559375" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/KFEEzuYoIv3xGicRQFXNbibxjctD5ib7d6oorgFmfvEYkBESJK3waAibNbyicLmGFq8YQ7t3vQB3EgrIxfib5tzhDUSg/640?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="640" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/11/27/20211127Y4Z00R.png" style="box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;image-orientation: from-image;display: block;margin: auto;"/></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">图片来自引文,版权归原作者所有</span></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'> </p><h2 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.75em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.225;cursor: text;border-bottom-width: 1px;border-bottom-style: solid;border-bottom-color: rgb(238, 238, 238);width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">心灵慰藉</span></h2><h4 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.25em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.4;cursor: text;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">【双语】我们在哪里可以找到幸福(下)</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[16]</span></sup></h4><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">翻译的帖子,有上中下三篇,有些内容挺有意思。</span></p><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">我们怎么能幸福呢?</span> <span style="box-sizing: border-box;">这个问题的答案是,往里面走。它是在理解我们自己。它在于理解我们内心的“探索者”,而不是“寻求者”(这里的幸福)。</span> <span style="box-sizing: border-box;">也正是因为了解到这条路没有尽头。它就像一条永无止境的河流,没有结论。</span> <span style="box-sizing: border-box;">当我们从经验上而不仅仅是智力上理解了这一点,幸福作为一个纯粹的副产品,我们是幸福的!我们不再去追求幸福。</span></p></blockquote><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-ratio="0.6651108518086347" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/KFEEzuYoIv3xGicRQFXNbibxjctD5ib7d6owHgo1ZNLICTVE3nvOSppD9FqQkhD9b4MOR9HCibic5kyibqOJGI2DJ4Rw/640?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="857" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/11/27/202111271I6yq1.png" style="box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;image-orientation: from-image;display: block;margin: auto;"/></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">图片来自引文,版权归原作者所有</span></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'> </p><h4 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.25em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.4;cursor: text;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">如果孩子今后总要面临挫折,那我现在对她的精心呵护还有用吗?</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[17]</span></sup></h4><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">文中的妈妈很棒啊,</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">“伤疤是战士的勋章。”</span></strong></p><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">爱并不是让他们永远避开挫折,也不能保证她永远不会遇到挫折,但能让她在遇到挫折的时候,有勇气,有信心,有可以信任、倾诉和依靠的人,有自尊自爱的底气。</span></p></blockquote><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'> </p><h4 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.25em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.4;cursor: text;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">想什么呢!其实我很喜欢你呀!</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[18]</span></sup></h4><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">Boothby 等研究者就发现一个命名为</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">“好感落差” (Liking gap)</span></strong><span style="box-sizing: border-box;"> 的现象:两个陌生人短暂交往一段时间,随后都估计自己对对方的好感、和对方对自己的好感;结果发现两个人都认为对方对自己好感的程度不如自己对对对方的好感。简单地说,</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">两个人都觉得自己还挺喜欢对方,而对方不那么喜欢自己。</span></strong></p></blockquote><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-ratio="1" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/KFEEzuYoIv3xGicRQFXNbibxjctD5ib7d6oevyAJ89wWm2YMlcRNUKfP5uNUUt3jsvFax7mgLGntQ1fUoYTvsVqgg/640?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="1080" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/11/27/20211127jc642d.png" style="box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;image-orientation: from-image;display: block;margin: auto;"/></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">图片来自引文,版权归原作者所有</span></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'> </p><h4 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.25em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.4;cursor: text;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">聊的越深越尴尬?不,我们可爱听了!</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[19]</span></sup></h4><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">深入而有意义的交流是有益的,它能帮助人们建立彼此之间的连接。但是,根据一项由美国心理学协会(American Psychological Association)发布的研究,我们通常只会与陌生人进行一些寒暄闲聊,因为</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">我们低估了其他人对我们的生活感兴趣的程度,错误地相信更深入的交流会更尴尬无趣——尽管实际上并非如此</span></strong><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">。</span></p></blockquote><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-ratio="1.7777777777777777" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/KFEEzuYoIv3xGicRQFXNbibxjctD5ib7d6ok0m3A07ytYxhianM1icNiaAjZEJD5D7icyiaaHzZVTlDIicbU9jVA4ayflMg/640?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="1080" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/11/27/20211127y0D7OW.png" style="box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;image-orientation: from-image;display: block;margin: auto;"/></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">图片来自引文,版权归原作者所有</span></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'> </p><h2 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.75em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.225;cursor: text;border-bottom-width: 1px;border-bottom-style: solid;border-bottom-color: rgb(238, 238, 238);width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">大千世界</span></h2><h4 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.25em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.4;cursor: text;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">万物皆可糖葫芦</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[20]</span></sup></h4><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">自打外国人掌握了淋糖稀的核心技术后,便将目光瞄准了缤纷水果界,甚至一整个肥宅快乐界。</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">没错,在歪果仁眼中,万物皆可糖葫芦。</span></strong></p></blockquote><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-cropselx1="0" data-cropselx2="391" data-cropsely1="0" data-cropsely2="524" data-ratio="1.340153452685422" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/KFEEzuYoIv3xGicRQFXNbibxjctD5ib7d6o8ceauJmEfibTu0jibGu3sQsjtGHKSwFLdpDmmJplgwFnh1OdkwdceJtw/640?wx_fmt=gif" data-type="gif" data-w="391" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/11/27/20211127482rm4.gif" style="box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;image-orientation: from-image;display: block;margin: auto;width: 391px;height: 524px;"/></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">图片来自引文,版权归原作者所有</span></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'> </p><h4 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.25em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.4;cursor: text;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">318国道串起的“中国美酒带”</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[21]</span></sup></h4><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">这条路同时也是中国的美酒带</span> <span style="box-sizing: border-box;">从上海的石库门黄酒到西藏的青稞酒</span> <span style="box-sizing: border-box;">从缘起商周的苏浙黄酒</span> <span style="box-sizing: border-box;">到“文君当垆”的天府邛酒</span> <span style="box-sizing: border-box;">从江淮流域的绵柔浓香</span> <span style="box-sizing: border-box;">到四川盆地的川派浓香</span> <span style="box-sizing: border-box;">酒史深厚,酒脉绵长</span> <span style="box-sizing: border-box;">三千年传承,一万里飘香</span></p></blockquote><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-ratio="0.7453703703703703" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/KFEEzuYoIv3xGicRQFXNbibxjctD5ib7d6oaVTO3c5RHc3VrdqmGm9y3CXVsriciaoY0ISsA9eSWOrf3gMz7a0TmIqQ/640?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="1080" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/11/27/202111272205G4.png" style="box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;image-orientation: from-image;display: block;margin: auto;"/></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">图片来自引文,版权归原作者所有</span></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'> </p><h4 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.25em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.4;cursor: text;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">Apple 圣诞影片:拯救雪人行动</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[22]</span></sup></h4><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">Apple 圣诞影片,每年必看。腾讯视频没找到链接,原文处可以观看。</span></p><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">苹果发布2021圣诞影片《Saving Simon》,由奥斯卡提名的 Ivan Reitman 和 Jason Reitman 执导,iphone13 拍摄,讲述了女孩竭尽心力保护雪人 Simon 的故事,愿我们都能和想要守护的人一块度过一个美好的假期。</span></p></blockquote><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'> </p><h2 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.75em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.225;cursor: text;border-bottom-width: 1px;border-bottom-style: solid;border-bottom-color: rgb(238, 238, 238);width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">工具资源</span></h2><h4 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.25em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.4;cursor: text;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">覆盖近2亿篇论文还免费!沈向洋旗下团队「读论文神器」登B站热搜</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[23]</span></sup></h4><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">「论文速读」这个不错,当然不是每篇都有,你也可以尝试自己回答一下。</span></p><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">无意中发现 B 站上有个叫 ReadPaper 的在线论文阅读笔记神器冲上了热榜!ReadPaper 由沈向洋博士创办的 IDEA 旗下团队研发,其收录了近2亿篇已知学科的论文,提供了在线检索、翻译、做笔记等功能,甚至还有大佬参与答疑,堪称本硕博科研必备!</span></p></blockquote><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-ratio="0.724188790560472" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/KFEEzuYoIv3xGicRQFXNbibxjctD5ib7d6oNyeR0k7QqPt5fYc0PT6h2qmLsGXl9he3DEPGdL1LKHy9ycq4ia3069w/640?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="1356" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/11/27/20211127W77hGv.png" style="box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;image-orientation: from-image;display: block;margin: auto;"/></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">图片来自引文,版权归原作者所有</span></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'> </p><h4 style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;break-after: avoid-page;break-inside: avoid;orphans: 4;font-size: 1.25em;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-weight: bold;line-height: 1.4;cursor: text;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">PicWish 免费自动修图工具,照片去背、移除杂物、修复人像</span><sup style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">[24]</span></sup></h4><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">「 PicWish 」是最近颇受讨论的一个线上的修图工具 遇到这些需求,不需要繁复的操作,只要上传原始照片,按下一键自动修图,就能获得成果照片。</span></strong><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">而且在使用「 PicWish 」时,和许多其他自动修图工具相比,「 PicWish 」尤其在去背上有很不错的效果,并且除了自动去背外,也提供了手动调整的选项,是其最值得试试看的一个功能。</span></p></blockquote><blockquote style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(223, 226, 229);padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(119, 119, 119);font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><p style="box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;width: inherit;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">不过也因为「 PicWish 」无论是否有注册,上传照片修图后都没有管理或删除自己照片的功能,我目前也没有在网站上找到明确的会如何删除照片的条文,所以如果是有私密资料的照片,可能不适合使用。(「 PicWish 」有另外提供付费的API 给商业使用。)</span></p></blockquote><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><img data-ratio="0.503125" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/KFEEzuYoIv3xGicRQFXNbibxjctD5ib7d6owlXwAibK50GdGNWiacG03rnfLLibZhibkrS4DuEqbu05AuHRjTUf09ENMw/640?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="640" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/11/27/20211127128K81.png" style="box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;image-orientation: from-image;display: block;margin: auto;"/></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">图片来自引文,版权归原作者所有</span></p><p style='font-size: 16px;text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: inherit;orphans: 4;margin-top: 0.8em;margin-bottom: 0.8em;width: inherit;font-family: "Open Sans", "Clear Sans", "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "Segoe UI Emoji", sans-serif;'> 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!important;'>做产品要盈利这是天经地义的,毕竟是商业行为,公司要持续运营下去,员工也要有收入。但现如今「赚用户钱」这件事没那么简单,不是想收就能收到,除非无可替代,那么功能再难用界面再难看,用户骂得再厉害也还是会一边骂一边继续用下去。反之,如果替代品众多,那么就要想方设法去与用户建立联系,让用户“心甘情愿”付费,或者体验为王(比如 APPLE),或者让用户觉得“占了便宜”(比如某多)。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>作为软件从业者,从我角度来说,多少也有些矛盾,虽然近几年国内愿意为软件付费的人群在增加,但“习惯”了免费软件的观念没那么容易改变,所以大多数人去评价「付费软件」时其实比「免费软件」要苛刻,同类型的软件,一个收费,一个免费,免费的功能不好用,想想毕竟没出钱,算了算了,要求别太高了。而收费的呢,因为出钱了,对功能的预期便是「要让这钱花得值得」。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility 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153, 153);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'><ol class="list-paddingleft-2" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-right: 3em;margin-bottom: 1.5em;margin-left: 1.5em;padding-left: 1.5em;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;"><li style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 0.75em;margin-top: 0.75em;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;"><p>我们在设定一个目标的时候,究竟是如何去衡量自己所要付出的代价的呢?</p></li><li style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 0.75em;margin-top: 0.75em;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;"><p>我们是在设定了目标之后才去衡量,还是衡量过后再设定目标的呢?</p></li></ol></blockquote><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>大多数时候,我们习惯先立一个 Flag,Flag 在某种意义上也算是一个目标。比如,一个月瘦掉5斤,一周看完3本书,一天要写一篇文章坚持3个月…… 在定这些目标之前,有些人会做好计划,仔细评估,确保这个目标是可实现的,这是严谨的人。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>而大多数喊出 Flag 的人,可能就是那一瞬间喊出来了,自己的确清楚地知道,现状需要得到改变,想瘦的因为对目前的体重不满意,想看书的可能因为没时间去看书,想写文章的大概是想成写作的习惯。于是,就想通过设定一个目标来启动这个「改变的工程」。但具体工程量大不大,可能还没来得及细想。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>很多人半途而废,可能并不是因为虎头蛇尾患得患失,往往是因为把目标设定得太高,同时又对达成那么高的目标要付出的代价缺乏清楚的认识。原本以为是个小土丘,走到一半,才发现后面还有一座大山,干粮也不多了,周边也没有条件获取食物,前途茫茫,想想还是算了,坚持不下去了。但如果一开始就清楚地知道要穿过一片竹林,翻过一座山,绕过一个瀑布,干粮都备足,工具也准备好了,那么心里自然就笃定些,坚持下去也更容易。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>所以,究竟如何评估呢?我试图总结出来一些方法,防止这篇文章沦为“标题党”。那么就先尝试着从我自己的经验出发吧。我打算分两种来说明,一种是自己不曾做过的事,二是自己曾做过的。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>如果是自己不曾做过的事,那么只能借鉴别人的经验了,但借鉴之前,你必须首先收集好足够的信息,比如,自己的真实状况、设想中需要做的准备工作、财力/人力支持、外部环境等等因素。然后,尝试着列出自己想要实现这个目标的路径,准备分几个步骤,每个步骤达成的效果是怎么样的。自己把整个过程想明白之后,再去借鉴其他人的,看看两者区别在哪里,是否需要调整自己的计划。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>如果是自己曾做过的,反而要警惕。除非你有详细的记录数据,比如用了多少时间,花了多少钱,最后达成效果怎样。如果没有这样一份数据,人们的潜意识里都会「轻敌」,毕竟做过,小意思啦。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>可,我们忽略了「变化」,比如健身这件事,年轻时锻炼15分钟和中年时锻炼15分钟是不一样的,年轻时锻炼完吃一个冰淇淋不碍事,中年时得想一想要多久才能消耗掉。同样一件事,时间和环境发生了变化,那这件事的难易程度也会跟着变化。「低估」和「高估」,都会对目标达成产生影响。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>具体怎么做呢,拿我之前的「坚持100天写作」来举例子吧(参见 <a data-itemshowtype="0" data-linktype="2" href="http://mp.weixin.qq.com/s?__biz=MzIyMjEzMjMwMg==&mid=2650022139&idx=1&sn=0d9eb36ddb6330f402a190791e3f3268&chksm=f032a1dac74528ccd0e2a80a4d82ad41fc9e61a5110f2479180067d519ff848651db9e67d66b&scene=21#wechat_redirect" imgdata="null" imgurl="" linktype="text" tab="innerlink" target="_blank" textvalue="今天是个好日子">今天是个好日子</a>)。定下这个目标的背景是,我已经完成了 7天、<a data-itemshowtype="0" data-linktype="2" href="http://mp.weixin.qq.com/s?__biz=MzIyMjEzMjMwMg==&mid=2650021549&idx=1&sn=cee281b8acd7113705d9748e797b516a&chksm=f0329f8cc745169a36861f0912ad28cad31e39f740e1ec25741c836e35decca7cc2e44b6571e&scene=21#wechat_redirect" imgdata="null" imgurl="" linktype="text" tab="innerlink" target="_blank" textvalue="30天写作">30天写作</a>,所以就把战线拉长,来个100天的目标。听上去是循序渐进的,应该不难吧。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>当时的我,确实有点掉以轻心了。每天会遇到很多人,发生很多事,从里面摘点出来写个几百字到千字,不难啊。刚开始,确实挺顺利的,留意每天发生的事,有了碎片的想法就立刻在备忘录里记下来,回去就接着把碎片写出一篇文章来。如果一直都这么顺利,那么目标估计不痛不痒毫无波澜地就能达成了。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>此处有「但是」,慢慢的,就发现,不是每天都能找到可以成文的碎片,有些想法记下来,到了写的时候又失去了意义;即便有可以成文的碎片,也不是每天都能留出时间来写,加个班,看个剧,很快就到了该睡觉的时间。这些问题看起来司空见惯,应该在定目标的时候就能想到啊,可是正因为之前的经历,让我忽视了显而易见的绊脚石,「坚持100天写作」最后还是磕磕绊绊地完成了(虽然有些只能算作是凑数🤦♀️),但付出的代价远比我想象中要大。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>这些其实可以用一个词来概括 —— 「自知之明」,知道自己擅长什么,不擅长什么,可能会碰到什么样的问题。在对自己有了清醒的认知之后,很多事情就变得简单快乐了,心里有了一杆秤,手上有了一把尺,比如,健身的目标不会比着六块腹肌的教练去,而是保持健康就好;财富的目标不会比着新闻上光鲜亮丽的排行榜人士去,而是小富即安就好;学习的目标不会比着记忆超群的学霸们去,而是稳扎稳打就好。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>这样一来,目标就立刻变得接地气了,在定目标的时候,似乎就能清晰地看到必经之路的样子,那么,需要付出什么样的代价自然就清晰了。「道理都懂,可还是过不好一生」,这样想的人,可能对于「过好一生」有着比较高的追求,什么样的「好」才算「过得好」。同样老生常谈的还有「时间管理」「精力管理」,书看了很多,课听了很多,可实践起来怎么就那么难呢?</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>这时候就需要停下来想一想,自己定的目标是否合理了,对于「时间管理」的初学者,如果一下子定了一个很高的目标,比如极高的效率、各种 Balance 等等,那么注定是坚持不下去了,而如果就是从身边的一件件小事做起,每天就完成1-2件事,随着能力的提升再慢慢去匹配更高层次的目标,这才是制定目标的王道。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>最后,你会发现,其实「时间管理」这个词本身就是伪命题,时间的流逝没人可以逆转,又如何去管理它呢?你能管的只是你自己,你能决定的只是优先级,这样一段时间,你先做什么后做什么,因为不论你做什么,这段时间都是走了几个圈,然后消失了。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>有一个我经常会想起的单词 ——「awareness」,翻译过来是「意识」「觉知」的意思,「Self-awareness」其实与「自知之明」是类似的意思。说到底,我们要对自己有感知,时刻牢记去实现目标的就是这个真实的「自己」,不是其他的谁谁谁,谁谁谁可以模仿可以借鉴,但走出去的每一步都是我们自己实打实地走出去的,脚印是深是浅也只有自己知道,只有自己。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>保持一颗「自知之明」的心,从一个小目标开始吧。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;margin-left: 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0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>作为忠实的「双11编外人员」,规则复杂 —— 放弃,熬夜付款 —— 放弃,假装降价 —— 放弃,于是这几年的双11参与度都不高,这双鞋去看了一眼,恰好符合「佛系」的条件,于是就加到购物车,静待下单。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>隔壁群友在热火朝天地组队对战,稍不留神,就是99+未读消息,作为旁观的我,觉得也很有趣,这大概才是「倾情过双11」的一种态度吧,积极参与各种活动,过好购物节。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility 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!important;'>所以,现在想读一本书,我会想办法尽快开始,当然电子书优先,因为携带方便,随时随地可以看,而且可以同时看好几本。事实证明,这样也比较有效,那些没有立刻开始看只是默默加到「想读」里的书,大概本身的动力就不足吧,那么优先级就自然而然往后排了。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>电子产品也是如此,买新不买旧,并不是说旧的不能用,而是新的可以让你感受到这个时代的变化,感受到科技的力量,虽然是无形的,但是的确「科技让生活更美好」。当然,这也是要看厂家,对于硬件厂家来说,即便硬件资源足够,但也是要想办法提高更新换代的频率,买了一款就好几年不用再光顾,本身是对产品能力的肯定,但同时也是对厂家盈利能力的一种考验。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>作为果粉,我还是拿 Apple 举例吧,虽然乔布斯去世以后,Apple 产品饱受争议(但其实说归说,每年买买买的人并没有少),商业化味道变浓了,但首先要考虑的是,苹果的确是一家商业公司,而且每年要创新,投入很多,当然也需要恰饭啊。但看以下这张兼容图,基本上每款手机都可以支持6-7代的系统升级,已经很良心了。</p><figure style='white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-top: 1.5em;margin-bottom: 1.5em;width: 700px;text-align: center;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-ratio="2" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/KFEEzuYoIv07N3hrWxQzpV1CvluPjibNLXVXFCDxu7pjDx2MLaia3SpqI0gV614hYkApxvSdvt8ZRMtgNicZ6Wibpw/640?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="851" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/11/18/2021111829j34y.png" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;"/></figure><figure style='white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-top: 1.5em;margin-bottom: 1.5em;width: 700px;text-align: center;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 12px;text-align: start;">图片来自网络</span><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 12px;text-align: start;">,版权归原作者所有</span></figure><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>有点跑题,除了这些有「保鲜期」的东西,还有很多对于时效性是无所谓的,比如,我的鞋,我现在其实有合脚的跑步鞋,只是稍微有点嫌弃它的自重,那么对我来说,新鞋的需求不是那么迫切,有则更好,无也可以等。这种时候,就没必要「立刻下手」了,可以选择一个合适的时机入手。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>并不是所有东西都要即刻拥有。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>但需要注意一点,这个「等待」不能消耗我们太多的额外精力,比如要花很多时间去比价、监控价格、计算规则等等。这样的等待的确是增加了无形的时间成本,不划算。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>随着年纪增长,我越来越发现生活中充满了「亦可」,年轻时候觉得非此即彼,永远在做选择题,但其实「亦可」更难得,这不是选择题,而是组合题,将两种看起来“互斥”的选择组合到一起,让两者皆有可能。这一点我在 <a data-itemshowtype="0" data-linktype="2" 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!important;'>公元前三百多年的古希腊哲学家,柏拉图,在他的书《斐德罗》中有一则「战车寓言」,说人的灵魂不只有一个,而是三个:黑马、白马与骑手。黑马代表欲望、白马代表意志,而骑手代表理性。</p><figure style='white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-top: 1.5em;margin-bottom: 1.5em;width: 700px;text-align: left;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" data-ratio="0.5625" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/KFEEzuYoIv1qlk57MpS2gx8V1kl2RZbLia4D4qXKfwnYV89kyGaj9O5Wtmp65bbpEwwCo6qTFtuXlgKgv4giaAgg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1200" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/11/17/202111179BO22t.jpeg" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;width: 436px;height: 247px;"/></figure><figure style='white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-top: 1.5em;margin-bottom: 1.5em;width: 700px;text-align: left;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'><span style="text-align: start;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 12px;">图片来自网络,版权归原作者所有</span></figure><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>第一次看到这个说法的时候,觉得很有意思。为什么「骑手」是「理性」,而不是其他两者,骑手是理性,意味着人在大多数时候是理性的,靠「理性」驾驭着「欲望」和「意志」。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>但在普遍的刻板印象中,人是情绪化的,感春伤秋,喜怒哀乐,情绪似乎是人的主宰,有情绪才是一个鲜活的人,而不是冰冷的计算机。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>可如果按照骑手是理性的说法来想,人的确在大多数时候是理性的,买东西要付钱,绿灯行红灯停,遵守着世间的规则,「理性」告诉我们,哪些能做,哪些不能做。而情绪失控,对于一个正常人来说,如果把时间拉长到整个生活长河,失控与可控相比,比例相对还是比较低的。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>可是「印象」就是这么奇怪的事情,不好的记得反而比较深,一段时间内如果出现过不好的事情,那这段时间在我们记忆当中最深刻的就是那些不好的记忆,甚至可以盖过开心快乐的事。「理性」与「情绪化」同样如此,平淡无波澜的日子总是容易被忘却,能第一时间想起来的却是让自己愤怒、情绪失控的瞬间。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: 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rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>手不抖,对于一位老人来说,像是一个“荣耀”,因为手不抖,这位87岁的老年病学家依然可以稳稳地开车。这样看起来的确很厉害,但当我们在谈「老去」的时候,似乎总不会提起这样的细节,而正是因为这样一个又一个的细节,会让「老去」变得很“难熬”。</p><blockquote style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-top: 1.5em;margin-right: 1.5em;margin-bottom: 1.5em;padding-left: 1.5em;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(153, 153, 153);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'><p style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;">高龄老人告诉我,他们最害怕的并不是死亡,而是那之前的种种状况 —— 丧失听力、记忆力,失去最好的朋友和固有的生活方式。正如菲利克斯对我说的:“老年是一系列连续不断的丧失。”在小说《每个人》(Everyman)中,作家菲利普·罗思(Philip Roth)说得更加苦涩:“老年不是一场战斗,而是一场屠杀。” <br style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;"/>—— 《最好的告别:关于衰老与死亡,你必须知道的常识》 </p></blockquote><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>「屠杀」这个词,显得有些残酷,但想想,「一系列连续不断的丧失」,而且对这些「丧失」自己几乎无能为力,那说残酷就一点都不为过。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>医学的发达,让平均寿命得以延长,很多旧时无法治愈的疾病,有了新的治疗手段。但同时又带了新的问题,大多数人会有相当长的一段时间由于身体太衰老、太虚弱而无法独立生活。「一旦衰老导致衰弱,似乎就没人可以活得快乐」。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'><strong style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;">我们为「老去」做好准备了吗?</strong></p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>在没看这本书之前,我朴素地认为「存够钱找个养老的地方」便是做好准备了,但事情远没有那么简单。美国老人的社会化养老已经相当成熟、成体系了,但大多数的疗养机构是什么样的情况呢?</p><blockquote style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-top: 1.5em;margin-right: 1.5em;margin-bottom: 1.5em;padding-left: 1.5em;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(153, 153, 153);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'><p style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;">几乎没有一所疗养院的工作人员会跟你一起坐下来,努力理解在这种情况下生活对你到底意味着什么,更不用说帮你建立一个家、一个使得真正的生活变得可能的地方。<br style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;"/>—— 《最好的告别:关于衰老与死亡,你必须知道的常识》 </p></blockquote><blockquote style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-top: 1.5em;margin-right: 1.5em;margin-bottom: 1.5em;padding-left: 1.5em;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(153, 153, 153);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'><p style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;">最终我们入住回应各种社会目标<strong style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;">(从腾出医院的床位,到解除家人的负担,到应对老年人的贫困问题)</strong>的机构。这些目标从来不是对居住其中的人们要紧的目标:在我们衰老脆弱、不再有能力保护自己的时候,如何使生活存在价值。<br style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;"/>—— 《最好的告别:关于衰老与死亡,你必须知道的常识》 </p></blockquote><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>毕竟,疗养院的创办起源并不是为了帮助人们面对高龄的依赖问题,而是为了给医院腾床位。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>书中「老人的渴求:一扇能上锁的门」章节,让我泪目。</p><blockquote style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-top: 1.5em;margin-right: 1.5em;margin-bottom: 1.5em;padding-left: 1.5em;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(153, 153, 153);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'><p style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;">她的想法很简单。她想要的是一所小小的房子,有一个小小的厨房和卫生间;里面要有她喜欢的东西,包括她的猫、她尚未完成的项目、她的维克斯达姆膏、一个咖啡壶和香烟。要有人帮她做她自己无法做的事情。在她幻想中的地方,她可以锁上房门,控制温度,拥有自己的家具。没人要她起床,没人关掉她最喜欢看的肥皂剧或者弄坏她的衣服,也没有人可以因为过期刊物和杂物构成安全威胁而扔掉她的“藏品”。任何时候她都可以如愿拥有隐私,没有人可以让她穿衣服、吃药,或者让她参加她不喜欢的活动。她会做回杰茜,一个住在公寓里的人,而不是一个睡在病床上的病人。<br style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;"/>—— 《最好的告别:关于衰老与死亡,你必须知道的常识》 </p></blockquote><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>锁上房门,这个要求看起来那么微不足道,但是,将“安全”作为首要原则的疗养机构,初衷便不是「帮老人建立一个家、一个使得真正的生活变得可能的地方」,锁上房门,意味着“危险”,<strong style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;">任务比人更重要</strong>。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>但值得庆幸的是,有一些“先驱者”正在努力抗击疗养院的三大“瘟疫”:厌倦感、孤独感和无助感。比如,用两条狗、4只猫、100只鸟发起革命的疗养院;私密房间+共同生活区的新型退休社区和一所包括幼儿园到八年级学生的私立学校共用场地;「决心不论什么情况都要帮助人们住在自己家里,按照自己的方式生活,直到生命的终点」的社区合作组织……</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>这些先驱者都有一个共识:</p><blockquote style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-top: 1.5em;margin-right: 1.5em;margin-bottom: 1.5em;padding-left: 1.5em;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(153, 153, 153);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'><p style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;">他们都相信无需因为生活需要帮助就牺牲自己的自主性。在认识这些人的时候,我意识到,在关于什么样的自主对于生活最重要这方面,他们有着一致的哲学认识。<br style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;"/>—— 《最好的告别:关于衰老与死亡,你必须知道的常识》 </p></blockquote><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>他们都在努力帮助老年人战胜老年生活的无聊与无助,这不是一种模式,而是一种文化,一种态度。</p><blockquote style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-top: 1.5em;margin-right: 1.5em;margin-bottom: 1.5em;padding-left: 1.5em;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(153, 153, 153);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'><p style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;">对疾病和老年的恐惧不仅仅是被迫忍受对种种丧失的恐惧,同样也是对孤独的恐惧。当人意识到生命的有限,他们就不再要求太多。他们不再寻求更多的财富,不再寻求更多的权力。他们只要求,在可能的情况下,被允许保留塑造自己在这个世界的生命故事的权利——根据自己的优先顺序作出选择,维持与他人的联系。<br style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;"/>—— 《最好的告别:关于衰老与死亡,你必须知道的常识》 </p></blockquote><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>人的寿命终有极限,医学也终有局限,清醒地认识到这一点,也许很多事情的取舍就没那么艰难了,什么时候我们应该从为时间而战转向争取自己珍视的其他事物。书中一位身患绝症的荣誉教授这样说:</p><blockquote style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-top: 1.5em;margin-right: 1.5em;margin-bottom: 1.5em;padding-left: 1.5em;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(153, 153, 153);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'><p style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;">她(教授的女儿)告诉他:“我需要了解为了博取一个活命的机会,你愿意承受多少,以及你可以忍受的生存水平。”谈话进行得非常痛苦。他说:“如果我能够吃巧克力冰激凌、看电视足球转播,那我就愿意活着。如果能有这样的机会,我愿意吃很多苦。”<br style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;"/>—— 《最好的告别:关于衰老与死亡,你必须知道的常识》 </p></blockquote><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>他的回答让女儿震惊,在她的印象中,自己的父亲不怎么看足球比赛。有点可爱,也有点心酸,巧克力冰淇淋+足球比赛就足以支撑一个「博取活命的机会」以及「忍受手术可能带来的痛苦」,这样的谈话是艰难的,但如果没有这样的谈话,女儿永远也不可能知道父亲当下最珍视的是什么。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>书中后半部分的篇幅在讲述善终服务和姑息护理,就像作者说的:</p><blockquote style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-top: 1.5em;margin-right: 1.5em;margin-bottom: 1.5em;padding-left: 1.5em;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(153, 153, 153);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'><p style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;">善终不是好死而是好好活到终点。<br style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;"/>—— 《最好的告别:关于衰老与死亡,你必须知道的常识》 </p></blockquote><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>这句话看上去像是矛盾的,但如果你看了书中那些鲜活的事例,就能明白了。医疗手段并非必须要采取,最后一段时光,辅助生活比辅助死亡要艰难得多,但其实更有意义。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>在刚开始这本书的时候,我陷入深深的不安,对这看起来恐怖又不可控的「老去」不知所措,但随着书一页页地翻过,跟着书里的这些老年人经历他们的时光,内心逐渐平静,作者作为一个医生,能够跳出专业的角度来思考,着实难得。</p><blockquote style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-top: 1.5em;margin-right: 1.5em;margin-bottom: 1.5em;padding-left: 1.5em;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(153, 153, 153);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'><p style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;">无论是由于年龄还是健康不佳所致,随着能力的衰退,要使老人们的生活变得更好,往往需要警惕认为医学干预必不可少的想法,抵制干预、修复和控制的冲动。<br style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;"/>—— 《最好的告别:关于衰老与死亡,你必须知道的常识》 </p></blockquote><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>但也希望你不要简单地误认为「讳疾忌医」或者「医生不作为」,在生命尽头,面临的挑战远比我们想象中要复杂,但同时,做出选择似乎又如此的直白。</p><blockquote style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-top: 1.5em;margin-right: 1.5em;margin-bottom: 1.5em;padding-left: 1.5em;color: rgb(102, 102, 102);border-left-width: 4px;border-left-color: rgb(153, 153, 153);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'><p style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;">更为根本的挑战是:个人必须决定他所害怕或者希望的事项是否应当是最紧要的。<br style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;"/>—— 《最好的告别:关于衰老与死亡,你必须知道的常识》 </p></blockquote><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>庆幸的是,在自己未老之时看到这样一本书,它给了我开始思考「真正应该害怕什么、可以希望什么的勇气」,这件事很难,也有很多理由去回避,但既然,终须一别,尽早开始做好准备,到时候能够稍微从容那么一丢丢,已是万幸。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.8);font-family: Georgia, Cambria, "Times New Roman", Times, serif;font-size: 18px;text-rendering: optimizeLegibility !important;'>以上只是我从摘录的13000多字的笔记中提取的最印象深刻的感想,强烈建议阅读全书,14.7万字,我花了4小时读完,按照平常的速度来算,算是很慢的一次了,但的确值得。最重要的是,让我对于「养老」这件事有了新的方向,接下来的几十年,希望能为这个“课题”交上一份令自己满意的答卷,如果有可能,接下来我也会把自己的研究分享给大家。</p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased;margin-bottom: 1.5em;caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 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Toolbox 显示 100%</span></p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: 1.8;orphans: 4;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-size: 1.25rem;width: inherit;font-family: Merriweather, "PT Serif", Georgia, "Times New Roman", STSong, "Segoe UI Emoji", serif;'><img data-ratio="0.8116129032258065" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/KFEEzuYoIv3Gof6E0rkibSgicd0cA9TwtOlJkthBEw2yicAEPoGJ5kiaibYyrGStP1F6qN0Y79mtTezduWQ9jkK2HEQ/640?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="1550" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/10/05/20211005cdrY4O.png" style="box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;image-orientation: from-image;width: auto;display: block;margin: auto;"/></p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: 1.8;orphans: 4;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-size: 1.25rem;width: inherit;font-family: Merriweather, "PT Serif", Georgia, "Times New Roman", STSong, "Segoe UI Emoji", serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style='caret-color: rgb(136, 136, 136);color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-family: Merriweather, "PT Serif", Georgia, "Times New Roman", STSong, "Segoe UI Emoji", serif;font-size: 14px;orphans: 4;text-align: start;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);'>图片来自网络,版权归原作者所有</span></span></p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: 1.8;orphans: 4;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-size: 1.25rem;width: inherit;font-family: Merriweather, "PT Serif", Georgia, "Times New Roman", STSong, "Segoe UI Emoji", serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">这样的学习路径用思维导图来表示,一目了然,但重要的其实不是思维导图这个形式,而是其中的内容,尤其对于想入门 Data Science 的小白来说,是一盏指路明灯,当然,路径未必适合每个人,但如果真的能够坚持按照这些步骤学习下来,我相信,「是否适合自己」这个问题,早就在学习的过程中解决了。</span></p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: 1.8;orphans: 4;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-size: 1.25rem;width: inherit;font-family: Merriweather, "PT Serif", Georgia, "Times New Roman", STSong, "Segoe UI Emoji", serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">能够把一件庞大的事情拆分成一个个的子任务,对于现代职场人来说,是非常重要的能力,「数据科学」,这事儿听上去多大呀,涉及理论基础、算法、大数据、编程、工具等等,甚至还有很多跨学科的知识点,如果无法将这些知识点进行拆分,细化到每个子任务,很容易就陷入「眼高手低」,一方面觉得太庞大了太难了,一方面又只能流于表面,真正核心的知识点都未涉及。</span></p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: 1.8;orphans: 4;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-size: 1.25rem;width: inherit;font-family: Merriweather, "PT Serif", Georgia, "Times New Roman", STSong, "Segoe UI Emoji", serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">前阵子开始在编程能力方面查缺补漏,也是采用这样的方式,先从大方向上看自己还差哪些方面的能力,然后再拆分导具体的学习任务。在拆分的过程中,也看到很多国外大牛画的 RoadMap(路线图),形式多样,但内容同样丰富。其中列举出来的每个节点才是我们真正应该关注的,将这些节点转换成一个个学习任务,这才是利用思维导图的正确姿势。</span></p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: 1.8;orphans: 4;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-size: 1.25rem;width: inherit;font-family: Merriweather, "PT Serif", Georgia, "Times New Roman", STSong, "Segoe UI Emoji", serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">再拿一张 Java 的学习路径图作为例子,图里清晰地列出了作为 Java 开发者应该掌握的技能,并且分了三个等级:核心掌握、知道更好、其他可能,让初学者可以根据优先级调整适合自己的路径。</span></p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: 1.8;orphans: 4;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-size: 1.25rem;width: inherit;font-family: Merriweather, "PT Serif", Georgia, "Times New Roman", STSong, "Segoe UI Emoji", serif;'><img data-ratio="1.6565" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/KFEEzuYoIv3Gof6E0rkibSgicd0cA9TwtOQ3xTyxJzia2U0frMHW8DYDcWLpiaDSf6VZox3ghicmicDvpMDMzMhws59g/640?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="2000" src="https://cloud.huahuoding.com/images/2021/10/05/202110056963X0.png" style="box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;image-orientation: from-image;width: auto;display: block;margin: auto;"/></p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: 1.8;orphans: 4;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-size: 1.25rem;width: inherit;font-family: Merriweather, "PT Serif", Georgia, "Times New Roman", STSong, "Segoe UI Emoji", serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style='caret-color: rgb(136, 136, 136);color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-family: Merriweather, "PT Serif", Georgia, "Times New Roman", STSong, "Segoe UI Emoji", serif;font-size: 14px;orphans: 4;text-align: start;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);'>图片来自网络,版权归原作者所有</span></span></p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: 1.8;orphans: 4;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-size: 1.25rem;width: inherit;font-family: Merriweather, "PT Serif", Georgia, "Times New Roman", STSong, "Segoe UI Emoji", serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">某天看到群里有同学问,“请问该如何画思维导图?”,我的反应跟群里答复 Ta 的小伙伴一样,「如何画」是指「画图的工具软件有哪些,如何使用这些软件」,还是指「画思维导图」这件事本身,提问者的回答是两者皆有吧。</span></p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: 1.8;orphans: 4;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-size: 1.25rem;width: inherit;font-family: Merriweather, "PT Serif", Georgia, "Times New Roman", STSong, "Segoe UI Emoji", serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">我当时第一反应是「啊这」,工具软件这事儿好解决,搜索引擎搜一搜就能找到详细的使用指南,但「画思维导图」这件事本身,就有点迷惑。我所认为的「思维导图」本身是一个梳理思路的方式,工具是次要的,其精髓在于如何把自己想要解答的问题一步一步罗列出来,比如看完一本书,你可以列出书中的一些关键点;想要学习一门技能,就像前面的例子一样,列一个技能图;分析一个问题,可以把问题中的关键因素一层一层拨开;想写一本书,那么提纲就可以用思维导图列出来……等等。</span></p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: 1.8;orphans: 4;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-size: 1.25rem;width: inherit;font-family: Merriweather, "PT Serif", Georgia, "Times New Roman", STSong, "Segoe UI Emoji", serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">画思维导图的目的,是把碎片化或者繁杂的文字,可以通过一种清晰可见的方式表现出来。重点在于你的思路也跟随着画图的过程逐渐清晰。所以,画思维导图之前,一定是有一个「问题的提出」,解决什么问题,表达什么思路。这些都没有,突然蹦出来一个「我要画个思维导图」,为了画而画,着实有点让人摸不着头脑。但后来有小伙伴提醒我,应该是现在有一些打着「思维导图致富」类似旗号的课程,就好像前些年加盟奶茶店的广告一样,听说思维导图能够赚钱,于是想画一个。</span></p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: 1.8;orphans: 4;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-size: 1.25rem;width: inherit;font-family: Merriweather, "PT Serif", Georgia, "Times New Roman", STSong, "Segoe UI Emoji", serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">思维导图成为一个赚钱工具,接单画图,这件事本身没什么问题。但总觉得有点本末倒置,说起来也许显得矫情,我始终认为,自己都没有吃透的东西,能用得好吗?作为研发人员,始终秉持一条原则,不要去开发出一个自己都觉得不好用的产品(虽然自己觉得好用,别人也未必有同感),但这是最最基本的要求了。</span></p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: 1.8;orphans: 4;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-size: 1.25rem;width: inherit;font-family: Merriweather, "PT Serif", Georgia, "Times New Roman", STSong, "Segoe UI Emoji", serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">但话说到这里,似乎这也是很普遍的现象,我们烂熟于心的「WHY-WHAT-HOW」,能够真正从思维模式上去做到的人,还是少数。很多时候,我们觉得一个形式好,比如思维导图,比如之前很火的「一张图看懂 XXX」,都是很好的数据展现形式,但做这些图的 WHY,也都是有现实依据的存在,政府报告的文字版很长,对于普通老百姓来说,读起来有点困难,于是「一图看懂」系列很好地解决了这个问题,把几个关键点通过图文结合的方式放到一张长图上,虽不如文字版详尽,但主题思想大家都能看明白,而不是为了做图而做图。</span></p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: 1.8;orphans: 4;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-size: 1.25rem;width: inherit;font-family: Merriweather, "PT Serif", Georgia, "Times New Roman", STSong, "Segoe UI Emoji", serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">我每次做 PPT 都会花很长的时间去想背后能够串起来的逻辑,很多人觉得 PPT 就是展示用的,每一页之间并不存在很强的逻辑关系,图文并茂好看就行,但恰恰是因为用来展示的,对于背后逻辑的要求才会更高,文字版,读者看一遍,前后联系起来,自成逻辑。而 PPT,在一段限制的而且不会太长的时间里,太多干扰因素了,PPT 里面的图片、动画、字体、形状……理论上都是干扰思维的元素,这些元素并不是为了酷炫而存在,主要是为了能够更好地「为表达逻辑」而存在,一个动画可以承上启下,让观看的人明白两个场景之间的关联关系,这些元素只能是锦上添花,而不应该喧宾夺主。</span></p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: 1.8;orphans: 4;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-size: 1.25rem;width: inherit;font-family: Merriweather, "PT Serif", Georgia, "Times New Roman", STSong, "Segoe UI Emoji", serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">回到「思维导图」上来,在我看来,在准备画思维导图之前,首先自己脑中要有一个基本框架,完整性无要求,可以在画图的过程中逐步完善,但一定要有。也可以去参考别人画过的,更新或者删减,为自己所用。搜索的关键词也很重要,思维导图的英文是 MindMap ,但 RoadMap 展现的也属于思维导图的一种形式。画图的目的,永远是让某件事情更加清晰,而不是为了形式上的好看,反而掩盖了其中真正的用意。</span></p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: 1.8;orphans: 4;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-size: 1.25rem;width: inherit;font-family: Merriweather, "PT Serif", Georgia, "Times New Roman", STSong, "Segoe UI Emoji", serif;'><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">重要的不是「一张思维导图」,而是你</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">为什么</strong><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">需要一张思维导图,以及,你需要通过这张图来解决什么问题,解答什么疑惑。</span></p><p style='text-align: start;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: 1.8;orphans: 4;margin-top: 1rem;margin-bottom: 1rem;font-size: 1.25rem;width: inherit;font-family: Merriweather, "PT Serif", Georgia, "Times New Roman", STSong, "Segoe UI Emoji", serif;'><span 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